Mid-Week Review: Mud, Sweat, & Tears

This post is apart of a series of reviews that will appear on Wednesdays.

Let me start by saying that I’ve been a fan of Bear Grylls for several years. I BearGryllsalways enjoyed his televisions shows, most notably Man vs Wild, even if they were somewhat overly sensationalized or surrounded by some controversies. That stuff really didn’t bother me. I knew from the start that this guy was the real deal. He may not have done the safest things to get from point A to point B, but that’s not what he was doing. He was being put in a situation and asked, “What would you do? With all your training and experience, how would you take this situation?” Sometimes it would work and sometimes it would not. Either way it was still entertaining television.

And while I watched the show I began to notice a few things more about the man than just what he would do in the wild. I noticed he often talked about his faith, his Christian faith to be more specific. It was refreshing.

It was refreshing to see a guy out in these crazy situations, tackling nature, a man’s-man, who was able to admit that he drew strength from somewhere else. He wasn’t preachy or dropping Jesus’s name all around like a celebrity story at a cocktail party. He was honest and would mention it in passing. Sitting next to a campfire while talking about his family or while standing on mountain overlooking the miles of landscape surrounding him, he’d mention how it made him think of his Christian faith.

I say all this because when I saw he would be releasing an autobiography, I knew it was something I was going to read. The book did not disappoint.

It describes the background of his family and his childhood all through his early adulthood, military career, and culminating with his attempt to climb Mt. Everest. Along the way you learn how his personality was formed and the values that make him who he is. He discusses his very personal decisions involving faith, leadership, education, and even his stance on premarital sex. It’s an open and honest account of a man who is known around the world yet isn’t ashamed to share his faith.

I highly recommend this book. I’ve included a few of my favorite quotes below.

Fear forces you to look tough on the outside but makes you weak on the inside.

Despite all my friends thinking I was utterly mad, deep down I felt a determination to try to keep my virginity for my wife one day.

No one will do it all for you. That is left to each of us: to go out, to grab life, and to make it our own.

What I did know was that I needed something to give me back my hope. My sparkle. My life. I found that something in my Christian faith, in my family, and also in my dreams of adventure. My Christian faith says that I have nothing ever to fear or worry about. All is well. At that time, in and out of hospital, it reminded me that, despite the pain and despair, I was held and loved and blessed—my life was secure through Jesus Christ.

Life doesn’t often give us second chances. But if it does, be bloody grateful.

Click here to see more of my highlights from this book or click here to see highlights from additional books I’ve read.

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How to Pretend You Are Cool

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I wear a shirt and tie everyday. I wear khakis and sweaters. I’m pretty much a grown-up. I still try to keep up with what the kids are listening to. I can name a few new rappers, even though I’m a near middle-age average white guy, kind of like Danny Blaze. Here’s how it can be done:

  1. Go to iTunes and look at Top Singles
  2. Download a few songs in the Top 25. Make sure you get the clean version. Don’t want explicit lyrics to come on the iPod when your kids are riding in the backseats.
  3. Learn the songs and the artists who sing them. DO NOT learn the lyrics. You won’t be able to remember them and you’ll just sound stupid.
  4. And here’s the final step: Use the what you’ve learned in status updates. Don’t try using them in conversations. You’ll either use it wrong or people will ask you more questions than you’ll know. Apply your knowledge in a tweet and people will think you’re cool without you really having to prove it.
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And that’s it. Pretty simple. Now put your knowledge to work and get ready to start living the way you’ve only dreamed you could. This is life changing stuff people!

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Five From Michael Scott

This  is a series where I’ll feature five quotes from a few favorite characters.

Tonight’s episode of NBC’s hit series, The Office offers the ending of an era.220px-MichaelScott This show will always be one of my favorites so with the series finale it will be sad to see it all end. It became a staple among nearly every person who, at one point or another, has spent time behind the carpeted walls of a cubical. And for them they found a television show where they can look in a carnival mirror and laugh at their own reflection. The scenes they saw on the show didn’t look exactly the way their lives did, but they were eerily similar.

So here’s a few quotes from the “World’s Best Boss“.

“Hi. I’m Michael Scott. I’m in charge of Dunder Mifflin Paper Products here in Scranton, Pennsylvania but I’m also the founder of Diversity Tomorrow, because today is almost over. Abraham Lincoln once said that, ‘If you’re a racist, I will attack you with the North.’ And those are the principles that I carry with me in the workplace.”

 

“Wikipedia is the best thing ever. Anyone in the world can write anything they want about any subject, so you know you are getting the best possible information.”

 

“Everyone always wants new things. Everybody likes new inventions, new technology. People will never be replaced by machines. In the end, life and business are about human connections. And computers are about trying to murder you in a lake. And to me the choice is easy.”

“Would I rather be feared or loved? Easy. Both. I want people to be afraid of how much they love me.”

 

“You know sometimes, to get perspective, I like to think about a spaceman on a star incredibly far away. And, our problems don’t matter to him, because we’re just a distant point of light. But he feels sorry for me, because he has an incredibly powerful microscope, and he can see my face. [looks towards the sky] I’m okay. No, I’m not.”

 

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A Graph-ic Post

I’ve always liked infographics, but I don’t have the skill to make those. However I did take some basic computer courses at my Alma mater. So I thought I’d apply my talents and express my feelings through a few simple graphs.

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Well I hope you enjoyed them. Let me know what you think with in the comments below

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Novel Wisdom: London & Durham

NovelWisdomThis is a series where I’ll discuss some of my favorite quotes from books.

The books I chose for this post of Novel Wisdom are Walk Through Darkness by David Anthony Durham and White Fang by Jack London.

At first glance these books are incredibly different with not a thing in common. But both of these books are written by incredible authors. Jack London reached heights of fame and renown that few authors can ever hope to achieve. David Anthony Durham is a new author, but has already gained significant recognition for his work. Though the premise of these stories are incredibly unique they both deal with common themes. Each story revolves around a character being in a life that is not his own. They are attempting to navigate through their world and the conflicts they encounter.

“Slaves think about being free all day every day. Each time a bird Walkflies overhead he wonders how come that bird can come and go but not me? Each time a white child walk by going to school he wonders why my child was sold away from me? Why my body ain’t my own? Why God says he just, but then make a world like this? How come my massa says I’m a beast no smarter than a horse when we both know that no horse ever worked a tobacco field or sung a hymn on Sunday or gave birth to that same massa’s child?”

White FangIt is not the way of the Wild to like movement. Life is an offence to it, for life is movement; and the Wild aims always to destroy movement. It freezes the water to prevent it running to the sea; it drives the sap out of the trees till they are frozen to their mighty hearts; and most ferociously and terribly of all does the Wild harry and crush into submission man–man who is the most restless of life, ever in revolt against the dictum that all movement must in the end come to the cessation of movement.

For more information on these books find them on Amazon. You can also follow along with other books I’ve read and my highlights from them on my Kindle profile. If you have any thoughts on these quotes, books, or their authors, let me know by leaving a comment.

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Wait, What Does That Car Say?

I drive a lot. I have a daily commute along the interstate and I usually have to make a few trips on the weekends. During my time on the road I see a lot of people and I see a lot of cars. Some of the most interesting things I see are the ways people express themselves with their vehicles. So I decided to draft up a few bumper stickers myself.

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So which one of these describes you? Which one describes your husband or wife or someone else you know?

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Mid-Week Review:The Traits & Habits of Successful Bloggers

This post is apart of a series of reviews that will appear on Wednesdays.

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I came across this when I was looking for a book on blogging tips and one of the names I kept seeing was Kevin Muldoon and his book The Traits & Habits of Successful Bloggers. After visiting his website I not only purchased this book, I also purchased The Art of Freelance Blogging and I subscribed to this website.

This book had a lot of great information for bloggers. Each page covers an important part of being successful as a writer, not just blogger. The information covered was also applicable to other areas of life. Eating right, getting sleep, get organized, work on your craft and don’t wait for it to get better. These may sound obvious, but they are habits that we all have to consciously make each day. This was a great book to break down how this will affect your success in writing.

I also like the advice offered specifically for bloggers. It covered everything from the technical aspects of blogging such as HTML, editing software, and SEO to basic information such as note-taking, professionalism and making sure you are honest in your writing.

After reading this short book I not only felt highly informed but also encouraged. I’d recommend this to anyone even thinking about writing.

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How to Make Your Lady Happy

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Say you did something stupid. It’s not hard to imagine. Guys do things all the time. We might leave the toilet seat up, never wash the dishes, forget birthdays or anniversaries, or hide your favorite foods so she doesn’t eat them all before you get a chance to EVEN HAVE JUST ONE! Regardless, when this happens, here’s what you can do; You make your own card!

I recently had a special occasion in celebrating my four year anniversary with my wife. And for that I made my own card. It’s something I’ve been doing since we started dating. Here’s how it’s done:

Start with a basic poster board. You can either buy a large one and cut it in half or buy a smaller one.

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Fold the piece you’ve chosen in half to make a card.

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Make up a little rhyme with three verses, one for each page. Try and save the best verse for the last page. Write out the poem on the card. I try it out with pencil first, then go back over it with a marker.

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Make a few doodles and add a little color. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy. Just do your best and stick to what you know you can do.

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For an extra measure of cuteness have your kids color on the back of the card. Here’s my boys making out their card to mommy. If you don’t have your own, try to borrow them from someone else. Family members will throw kids at you at the drop of a hat.

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Sawyer and Lincoln (mostly Sawyer) coloring

And that’s it! You’re done. Don’t be tempted to go back and change things or add to it. Keep it simple. Remember that craftsmanship isn’t key, effort is. Just doing your best and letting it show says more than the finish product. Now you’ve completed a card she’ll cherish. Present it when she least expects it and you’ve done it.

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Here’s a quick study I did to show this lessons effectiveness.

What an increase!

Wow what an increase in happiness! That’s effective! If you found this post helpful please leave a comment or share with others. Men need all the help we can get.

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Two At A Time

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I read a good bit. I try to read as much as I can, but sometimes I get in a rut. Sometimes books move slowly. Dialogue that goes on forever but gets nowhere or pages are spent paragraph after paragraph describing one thing. Even in nonfiction books when authors tell stories that really aren’t interesting at all.
 
When this happens, I usually turn to something else. For the past few years this means reading a second book. I recently did this with A Million Miles in a Thousand Years by Donald Miller and The Island of Dr. Moreau by H. G. Wells. One was a non-fiction memoir dealing with Christianity and living the story you want told. The other was a classic science fiction novel. One was $4.99 and the other was free. Both were on the Kindle.
 
Doing this may not be for everyone, but to me it has been useful. Instead of forcing myself to read, I’ll take a quick break and read something else. Then I’ll come back to it. In doing this, I’ve picked up a few tips I thought I’d share.
 
  • Pick different genres-If you are sick of eating McDonald’s you don’t normally head to Burger King. You want something different. If you are reading a thriller that seems to go cold, don’t pick up another thriller. Find something different. This could be as simple as fiction and non-fiction. Reading a different genre will make sure that you are actually changing meals and not just changing flavors.
  • Keep it close-Make sure the book is somewhere you will read it. Whether it’s on your phone, on your nightstand, or sitting in the magazine rack next to the throne, make sure your book is within reach. Remember you are changing books to keep you reading, not to stop.
  • Remember to come back-Don’t get caught up in one book and neglect the other. Remember what’s going on in each. Switch back and forth as much as possible between them. A little time apart does good, but waiting too long can easily turn into a book you never finish.
  • Make time to read-Schedule a block of time that you know you’ll be reading. Some prefer to read before bed or during commercial breaks. For me it’s breaks and lunches at work. Just like anything else, you have to make time to have time.
  • Keep it a hobby-I read because I like to read. I don’t do it for anyone else. I don’t do it because I have to. Pick something you’ll like to read and will keep your interest. Don’t jump between one book you don’t like for another you hate. Make it something you’ll enjoy and you’ll keep reading.
I hope this list helps if you are forcing yourself to finish a book that you’ve already grown tired of reading. If you need a few suggestions on reading, let me know. Here’s a list of my reads from last year. I’ll be posting a list of what I’ve read so far this year when we get more towards the middle.

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In Honor of A-day

Today is the Alabama Crimson Tide’s Spring game. In honor of the game I’d like to share a little something. Watch this and think about Proverbs 22:6.

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. (King James Version)

That’s right. God’s basically telling you not to let your children grow up to be Auburn fans. Just kidding! Keep your hate mail and enjoy the games.

If you like this post you may also enjoy CFB Questions. 

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